Bitter Sweet Compliments

Have You Ever Wanted Something So bad..
That Wen Some1 else Got it you were still happy for them...
Its Called a Bitter Sweet Compliment...

Sure you May Not Actually address the person who has recieved it...
But on the Inside you start to weigh out the good and bad and sometimes you realize its better that you didn't win

What Do I Mean By Win...
This Can Be Either an Award..A Test...or Just a Guy in Particular...

Ever Felt like You Wer So Busy Pleasing Every1 else that when it Came time for your happiness you always fall in second place..

Lets Look at The Scenarios...
Girl Meets Guy.. Guy Says He Doesn't Want Relationship and Girl Moves on... month later..
Guy is Happily in a Relationship with Someone else...

Now this is where it makes sense...
Do you..
A) Get Mad and Post his old texts about how he wants u on facebook
B) Say Fuck him and move on
C) Tell your bestfriends and let them curse him out
D)None of the above and be happy for him...

I bet 95% of you chose B... Without throughly looking at the situation...

Besides it Being in the CARDS of whether for you to be with certain someone or not.. you must always look at TIME...
Time WAITS FOR NO MAN OR WOMAN....
and Suprisingly.. A Bunch of you would probably be happily in a relationship with your ex's if the timing was right...

Now How Do You know When the Timing is Right?
You Never Actually Do.. You Just Have to Have FAITH

Whats Meant To Be Will ALWAYS find its way and who's to say that if you actually did WIN that you'd be happy...

Confusing Huh?

As Much as You Want to choose A,B,C on the previous question just pick D and move on...

As Much as you believe you like a guy... What Love..or Faith will there EVER be if HE isn't happy...

You will NEVER be HAPPY if your male isn't completely happy with the decision he's making..
instead you'll get the trophy with no true Victory...

Its kind of Like winning 3rd place in a race.. Your Recognized for being on top...
But theres Always 1st and 2nd place winner that can steal your shine... Feel Me?

Now I'm Not Saying That You have to Always Come in 1st place...
I'm just Saying...
You Deserve only the BEST and that if you feel your NOT that 1st place Trophy in a Males Life...

Move the hell on.. and be happy for him wen He finds his.. Becuz Sure Enough.. Yours Will Be Waiting around the Corner...

Until Next Time<3




Rae Brooklyn Over And Out<3

Reflections

Ok So I only Haven't written on My Blog in a whole month because I didn't Want to write something that wasn't as good as the last. Here it Goes...

For Starters :

What do you see when you see me?

Some Say they see happiness,joy,confusion,naive,friendly,Unpredictable, and Just a Friend To Talk to.

My Reflection Shows a Whole lot more to me than that...

I believe that we all go through it sometimes... so there are times that I'm not always happy, I just choose to not let my emotions get the best of Me and Ruin Someone elses day.

Which Brings Me to My Next Topic...

Don't ever let your anger get the best of your emotions because it might very well screw up something very good you had going for yourself.

Things don't always stay bad in life unless you let them and negativity will drive u down a much more negative route.

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Have you Ever asked Yourself the question of what others want from you?

I speak from personal experience because someone asked me that last week...

Shorty Says To Me.. How do you know I don't want anything from you?

My Answer was only a question in itself... What do you want from me...??

I've decided that I'm going to be careful about who I surround myself around...

I know who's Real...Realer than Real.. and Who was Never Real To begin With.

For all you readers... If you want to know who's real to you.. Wait for your Birthday... Your 1 day out of the 365 day year that belongs to you, and see whos there. Only Then Will You Realize The True ones.

Now Lets Talk about L.O.V.E.....

Song of the Day...

Can't Be Friends-Trey Songz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v731w6aoEpE

I'm Loving This Song Becuz You Can Never ever Go back to square one with someone...

As Much as You Want to front, theres no way your going to forget everything that ever happend between the 2 of you.. and JUST be FRIENDS...

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22 Days Till Albany... The Only Thing I Have To Look Forward to..

In My Super Single Life as of now

Until Next Time,

Britt-Bratt

The Laws of Attraction

The Laws Of Attraction: aren't as simple as everyone thinks. We wonder why we are attracted to certain people in our lives, and think about how life would be if they were our better halves.

After watching half of the documentary "Diary of a Black Man" I can't say that i'm fully satisfied about knowing why black women are single. Because there really isn't an answer

*Important thoughts women should take note of*

1)"All women need a challenge... Women never "Actually" pick a man thats their type

ENGLISH: Women never actually go for the nice type they say they want..

Attached to My Reality: I don't never go for the too nice type.. because then life would be completely boring...

2) " Don't EXPECT a man to be what you want him to be... When he NEVER WAS what you want him to be

ENGLISH: You can't change every guy...A man has to be willing to change.. for it to work.

Attached to My Reality: I successfully changed a man in my past.. only to find him going back to his old ways.. so I just said "Deuces"

3) Don't compare your New man to the Old one.. the Old one didn't make it to your future for a reason.. so leave him the hell out of it

ENGLISH: Let the Past Remain the Past

Attached to My Reality: "I'm try my best not to compare new situations to my old ones.

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Sidenote..

Is the Good Guy the one we really want... or the one that we can walk all over?

It ceases to amaze me of how much we want the one that we can't have.. but what about the one that we can...

Who's to say life will necesarily be boring.. sure it may take time to find other things that make him interesting to you.. but maybe that something different is exactly what we need..

Hippocratic Much?

I'm not saying that I will make myself this way... i'm just saying maybe others should try out this technique... lol

I do feel however that it is something about the badboy/confident attitude that keeps me on my toes...

I don't usually attract the arrogant type..

but sometimes trying something outside of your comfort zone can lure you into something better than you've ever imagined..

So Who Cares about L.O.V.E?

At this point I don't think any guy is as SERIOUS as girls want them to be..

Want my Advice.. from a wiseguy "Act like a nigga..Till you fall in love"

Why? because when you least expect something worth the wait will be knocking at the door.

Now I don't mean act like a nigga.. where you hoe urself.. I mean be HEARTLESS

An OLD STORY EVERY1 Shud READ!

A Girl asked a Man.. Why is it ok for a guy to sleep with alot of girls.. but its not ok when a Girl does the same?.. The Man Replied "When a Key can open many locks then its a Master Key right? But when a Lock can be opened by many keys.. then its a pretty shitty lock isn't it??"

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So even when I say...

I hope its in the cards for me sooner than later.. because the

Laws of Attraction.. is Too Complicated for me to ever COMPLETELY understand.

In the meantime.. I'll just be

Ta-Ta 4 now...

Brittany~>Rae Brooklyn

"Just Kiss Me Baby and Tell Me Twice...."Chris Brown's Comeback

What Better Way To Start off My Blog with Chris Brown's Stellar Performance at the BET awards last night...

I was so excited to see Chris Perform Last night because he truly deserves his shine. Everyone makes mistakes and I feel Chris is truly sorry for what he did. You could tell those were Genuine Tears... Because he is the Man in the Mirror trying to Make a Change with Himself!

I'm also so happy that he is making his comeback because he was always so nice to me...

As many times as I've met Chris he has always been the sweet "giggly" kid and I respect him for that. Most celebrities that I have met.. (and WONT name) have some very stuck up attitudes, but Chris has always treated me and my friend the same and never changed.

I do hope that he will someday be back in the spot that he was in at his prime, but one things for sure.. Last Night he really SHINED!

There WILL never EVER be a better Michael Jackson Tribute.. and I'm happy BET gave Chris a Chance!.

Heres what Fab "Loso in case you and Know So" had to say

via Twitter: @myfabolouslife Chris Brown just single handedly bodied every MJ tribute to date.

I Couldn't agree with him any more...

and Ima leave all ya'll with this quote someone said on twitter yesterday

"Chris Brown Comeback?... He NEVER left.. Y'all DID!"

Muahzzz...

Remember Forgiveness always makes you a Better person!

Heres The Link For those who missed it last night

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xduf2x_bet-awards-2010-michael-jackson-tri_music/

All About Moi'

So I finally decided to do my Blog.. Which is way over due... I named it Rae Brooklyn because I feel it has a unique sense of style to it, and of course I'm from Brooklyn. Opinions really make a blog so if you don't like what I have to say you can easily click that big X in the corner and disregard the hate.. Other Than That I Love all of you Muchos.. and Welcome to My Little Notebook :)

Toodles!!

~>Brittany aka

Britt-Bratt

Brattny

Bitchny

Bitty

B-Boogie

B-Booty

Big Booty Britt

Rae Rae

and All of the Above! :)

A Quote To Leave You Inspired..

"You Can Be Anything you wanna be.. All it takes is Hard Work and a Dream"-Trey Songz