The Laws Of Attraction: aren't as simple as everyone thinks. We wonder why we are attracted to certain people in our lives, and think about how life would be if they were our better halves.After watching half of the documentary "Diary of a Black Man" I can't say that i'm fully satisfied about knowing why black women are single. Because there really isn't an answer
*Important thoughts women should take note of*
1)"All women need a challenge... Women never "Actually" pick a man thats their type
ENGLISH: Women never actually go for the nice type they say they want..
Attached to My Reality: I don't never go for the too nice type.. because then life would be completely boring...
2) " Don't EXPECT a man to be what you want him to be... When he NEVER WAS what you want him to be
ENGLISH: You can't change every guy...A man has to be willing to change.. for it to work.
Attached to My Reality: I successfully changed a man in my past.. only to find him going back to his old ways.. so I just said "Deuces"
3) Don't compare your New man to the Old one.. the Old one didn't make it to your future for a reason.. so leave him the hell out of it
ENGLISH: Let the Past Remain the Past
Attached to My Reality: "I'm try my best not to compare new situations to my old ones.
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Sidenote..
Is the Good Guy the one we really want... or the one that we can walk all over?
It ceases to amaze me of how much we want the one that we can't have.. but what about the one that we can...
Who's to say life will necesarily be boring.. sure it may take time to find other things that make him interesting to you.. but maybe that something different is exactly what we need..
Hippocratic Much?
I'm not saying that I will make myself this way... i'm just saying maybe others should try out this technique... lol
I do feel however that it is something about the badboy/confident attitude that keeps me on my toes...
I don't usually attract the arrogant type..
but sometimes trying something outside of your comfort zone can lure you into something better than you've ever imagined..
So Who Cares about L.O.V.E?
At this point I don't think any guy is as SERIOUS as girls want them to be..
Want my Advice.. from a wiseguy "Act like a nigga..Till you fall in love"
Why? because when you least expect something worth the wait will be knocking at the door.
Now I don't mean act like a nigga.. where you hoe urself.. I mean be HEARTLESS
An OLD STORY EVERY1 Shud READ!
A Girl asked a Man.. Why is it ok for a guy to sleep with alot of girls.. but its not ok when a Girl does the same?.. The Man Replied "When a Key can open many locks then its a Master Key right? But when a Lock can be opened by many keys.. then its a pretty shitty lock isn't it??"
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So even when I say...
I hope its in the cards for me sooner than later.. because the
Laws of Attraction.. is Too Complicated for me to ever COMPLETELY understand.
In the meantime.. I'll just be
Ta-Ta 4 now...
Brittany~>Rae Brooklyn
